Contemplating

I heard something that sort of disturbed me yesterday. Nothing major...just one of those conversations that lead you to think some people are not comfortable when people tell them things that are out of their norm...or someone deals with something that they can't understand. ( I know those who read this will have no clue where I'm going with this..not sure I am) I just know that we need to be careful that we don't "assume" things about people that go through hard times till we've walked in those shoes....been there done that. You get a whole new perspective when you are the one that has "been there done that". Never say what you will do till you have experienced it and had to make the decision. People that have trials and are "open and honest" about it make some folks uncomfortable. How sad. Most of the trials aren't contagious...and just think how many people they may help by sharing as long as they aren't glorifying the experience? I feel sorry for some folks......