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May 20, 2008

Excuses, Excuses




I've been in the classroom alot this year subbing, but occasionally I get to play secretary. Yesterday was one of those days. Part of the "job" is to fill out tardy slips when the kids are late. Some days are not very eventful in that area. Yesterday there were quite a few tardies. Some are ordinary "true" reasons for being late. Some, however I have to chuckle at. Here are a few I've heard. The excuses are "better" if mom and dad aren't standing there...kids tell more than you care to know sometimes!

1. I had to finish my homework.

2. I had to feed my dog.

3. My mom was mad at my dad.

4. I was too tired and couldn't get here on time.

5. There was a bad wreck.

6. I was too tired and I was dreaming about CANDY. ( Got that one yesterday from a second grader)

7. I might have had a tummy ache? ( like it was a question, not a fact)

8. My breakfast was good and I decided to finish it.

9. Our car was broke. My mom said to say it was the battery.



I'm not judge or jury, just the messenger to the teacher of why Little Johnny or Little Susie is running late for their class. I actually just mark "tardy" and let the teacher decide how to mark it. I'm a whimp.

Makes me think of all the excuses we had to our Lord. "I can't do that because...." , "I'm not talented enough", "They don't need me ..they already have so many people" ( Who does the calling? If he wants us in a place, he'll make a place) "I don't have time" ( And I know there are legitimate time restraints....I'm learning that now..but can all do "something" even if it's just one something and we do it with our whole heart.)

David's mother will be here Thursday for K-5 graduation. Of course, I'll clean my house. Daniel loves to clean...no joke.. He cried to my mom one night because " mommy and daddy made him stop cleaning the play room because it was bed time" ( the kids ain't normal!!!) Sean however has 100 reasons why he can't clean. "It makes me too tired"..."my hands will hurt"...."It's just not fun" ( translated: it's work and I don't like work) He will let Daniel do all the work and then jump in to pick up the last train or the last puzzle piece just to take some credit.

We are like that as adults. Do any of us really like to labor? I don't often see how "evenly" the pick up the toys job was distributed between my children if I'm off in another part of my house working. We are foolish to think God doesn't see what we do or how much we don't do. We get our feelings hurt because "no one will help" or " someone gets more recognition. I'm learning that the "applause of men" pales in comparison to the approval of my Saviour.

In Ecclesiastes we read. "Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might;

Everyone has an area they can blossom in. Find it and do it well . I think some of think that if we work our selves to the bones and take on this and that and more this of that , that somehow all of our activity gets God's attention. Might I submit that I think maybe quality and effective for his kingdom may mean more in a few jobs done well that a bunch of "sight jobs" ( others "seeing" us "busy") that are not nearly as effective. When I taught in NC in third grade my dear friend Ann who team taught 5th and 6th grades had a Gerbil or Hamster in her classroom ( sorry, Ann, a rat is a rat to me and I don't know the difference between a gerbil and a hamster, or a mouse or a rat for that matter!) but it was in a cage.(except for the days it escaped and would hide in the janitors closet) I think it had one of those wheels it ran around it. The thing seemed to enjoy that, but he really wasn't accomplishing much except maybe some "rodent exercises". That wheel never took him anywhere. I don't want to get caught up in "doing thing" to the point that I'm like that animal on the wheel...spinning round and round, never making a dent in the Kingdom and just running to make "motion and draw attention" to myself . I'm praying, even this week, that I choose the areas of service that "He" wants for me so that I have a goal at the end of my service, and I'm not just kicking up dust or spinning my "wheel" making it appear that something is going on with my service when really it's not.

I don't know what God has for you to do. Sometimes he gives me a job that's more in the "limelight". Other times he gives me jobs that no one has a clue I do. Those are fine too. I just want to keep my "duties" in perspective and do them well for his glory.

The founder of the University I attended used to say " A job worth doing is worth doing well"...
I have some work to do in a few areas.
What about you?

5 comments:

Greg P. said...

We ALL have work to do in a few areas. You're not alone. I know I make excuses all the time for not doing what I know God wants me to do. Or for doing something more for my own glory rather than His. Sometimes I feel like I'm just walking around saying "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry", to the Lord all day long. I guess that's why His forgiveness is so abundant. He knows our shortcomings and understands our human failures so well and He still loves us. How amazing is that!

katiegfromtennessee said...

Hey Mommy LuAnn! I just read your post! Thankyou for dropping by my post! I enjoyed reading yours. I think that God is working in this area with me too. I have a few ministries that I do for the church, a few that require more time than others-I just don't want to overdue it or HEAVEN FORBID-LORD HELP ME-get prideful over any of them. I just want to put forth the same effort into the funeral food ministry that I put into the program for Baptist Young Women on Mission where I'm talking to young teen girls and some moms of the girls about missions and the like. All the glory absolutely has to go to God! Sorry for the long post, but your post was thought stimulating:)

katiegfromtennessee

bp said...

My Mom is a school secretary and sometimes she'll tell me the reasons kids tell her for being late.

You're so right. Thanks for the reminder on how I do my jobs.

Amanda said...

I have a lot of work to do in a lot of areas. I'm sitting here now with a stomach ache b/c we tried that new BBQ place above the church (Phil's) and I OVERATE my ribs...I don't know why I keep falling back into old habits (nice word for old sin!!). Thanks for the good word and for reading my ramblings. Have a blessed week.

P.S.
Loved the kids excuses...I wouldn't be able to keep a straight face.

Kristi said...

Hi!

Thanks for stopping by my blog! Those excuses the kids gave are pretty comical. I like how you tied it in to thinking about how we make excuses to God.